90 Day Fiancé’s first-ever throuple broke up in the finale, but hasAny Aguirre moved to the U.S.to marry either Amani Jlassi or Matt after what happened?Matt and Amani were a married couplebased in San Diego, California, sharing two children and a decade-long relationship. Their dynamic is layered, with Matt oftentaking a more submissive role to Amani, who confidently calls herself a “boss b*tch.” Amani is bisexual and was raised in conservative Tunisia, and she embraces her freedom to express her true self openly. Her bold personality and drive to speak her truth add a powerful dimension to their partnership, shaping their unique and evolving relationship.
Matt and Amani’s marriage took a dramatic turn when they introduced Any, a stripper, on90 Day Fiancéseason 11. While the throuple shared a strong romantic connection, their bond was mostly maintained from afar, leaving Matt and Amani unaware of key parts of Any’s personal life. Hoping to take the next step,they traveled to Tijuana to spend time with herand possibly bring her into their family full-time. But things quickly went off course. Although Amani initially wanted a polyamorous lifestyle, her growing doubts about Any’s honesty and commitment began to unravel everything they had built.
How Did Amani & Matt Meet Any?
Any Seemingly Worked At Hong Kong Gentlemen’s Club
Amani and Matt met Any Aguirreduring a vacation in Mexico at a club. A bartender introduced them to the stripper, and despite a language barrier, the connection between the three was natural and easy. Amani had previously shared her interest in a polyamorous relationship. Meeting Any felt like the right moment for both Amani and Matt. As they got to know her, their feelings grew stronger, and they realized they had both fallen in love with her. The relationship developed naturally, and together they decided to become a throuple, building a life as three partners.
Any’s Secret Identity and Unfinished Marriage Shocked Amani & Matt
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In season 11 of90 Day Fiancé, Any, who had been introduced as a single mother from Tijuana, Mexico, was revealed to have a hidden past. Her real name was disclosed as Brenda, a detail she had kept from her partners, Matt and Amani. This revelation came to light throughconversations with her ex-partner, Rey, who had previously shared a bank account with her under the name Brenda. The discovery of her real identity raised questions about her transparency and intentions within the relationship.
Additionally, it was uncovered that Any had not legally finalized her previous marriage, leaving her technically still married. This lack of legal closure added complexity to her current relationship with Matt and Amani, who were considering bringing her to the United States. The combination of these secrets led to significant tension and uncertainty about the future of the throuple dynamic. Matt and Amani were leftquestioning Any’s honesty and commitment, casting doubt on the viability of their unconventional relationship.
Amani Felt Betrayed After Any Chose To Marry Matt Over Her
Amani had always dreamed of a wedding, so she was heartbroken when Any chose to marry Matt instead of her. After the decision was made, the throuple returned to their hotel room, and Amani found it difficult to hide her emotions. She struggled to process the fact that the woman she loved had picked someone else to share such a major commitment. Though she maintained her composure, Amani felt deeply hurt.She still wanted to support Anyand be the partner she promised to be, but the pain of being passed over lingered beneath the surface of her support.
As Amani tried to make sense of Any’s decision, Any questioned whether she was upset. Amani admitted she wasn’t angry, just trying to understand the choice. Any sensed Amani’s discomfort and speculated thatit stemmed from her desire to remain in control of the relationship. Amani, however, was filled with doubt, wondering if she had pushed Any too hard, whether emotionally or in encouraging her to come out to her family. She feared that Any might love Matt more or prefer a traditional future with a man, leaving Amani feeling excluded and unsure of her place.
Amani & Matt Are Still Together
Amy Appears To Be In Mexico
Despite the emotional challenges they faced during90 Day Fiancéseason 11, Amani and Matt appear to still be together. Although Any’s decision to marry Matt created tension, Amani and Matt remained committed to one another and their unique family dynamic. In May 2025,Amani went on a trip to Colombia with Matt, but Any had not accompanied them there. Amani does post content with Any and Matt on her IG page, but it seems to be content she’d created before and during filming90 Day Fiancéseason 11.
In one of her more recent Instagram Stories,Anyshared a clip of her argument with Amani from the90 Day Fiancéfinale and wrote, “never return to where you are consciously harmed” with a crying emoticon. Any has also liked a comment fromsenka.sakicwhich says, “I don’t think they are throupling (is that even a word!?) anymore. I don’t think it worked out. Good for you guys. Live your best life!” suggesting things didn’t work out between the throuple and Any wouldn’t be coming to the U.S. anytime soon.
